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How To Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs (Become the Best, Fittest Version of Yourself)

Self-limiting beliefs keep you from progressing—leaving you stuck, uninspired, and unfulfilled for years on end. Learn how to break free here.

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“Omg, you suck”. “There’s no way you can do that. You’re not good enough.” “Let’s be real—you don’t deserve success”.

As toxic as these are, the sad truth is that this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the absolute sh*t (pardon my language!) we tell ourselves daily. And that’s just in general. There’s also that of specific domains in your life, like fitness.

👉 "I just don't have the discipline to look as good as XXX."
👉 “Wow, look at XXX go. My body could never.”
👉 "It doesn’t matter how careful I am with my diet. I’ll always be skinny fat. My metabolism is ruined!”

🚩 Recognize any of those? Here’s a harsh truth.

By hiding behind self-limiting beliefs, you’re holding yourself back from improving your life in all aspects—including and beyond fitness.

So … how can you step out of the shadows of your self-limiting beliefs to be the best version of yourself? Find answers in this article.

What are self-limiting beliefs?

A limiting belief is exactly what it sounds like: a state of mind, conviction, or belief that you think to be true that limits you in some way. Limiting beliefs could be about:

🫵 You (e.g., “I’ll always be stuck with my belly fat.”)
🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Your interactions with other people (e.g., “If I go to the gym, people will judge and shame me.”)
🌍 The world and how it works (e.g., “I’m a woman, and women aren’t supposed to build muscle. So I'll just stick with cardio.")

As you can probably tell from the examples of self-limiting beliefs above, these false beliefs allow you to stay in your comfort zone.

But? Where there is comfort, there is no growth.

Holding on to your self-limiting beliefs keeps you from encountering new opportunities and life experiences.

You’re like the adult elephant who's long possessed the strength to tear up the fence post easily—yet still believe it’s a baby elephant unable to break free.

5 steps to overcoming self-limiting beliefs

But hey. You’re not an elephant (obviously). So, why behave like one? Here’s how you could walk away from the fence—i.e., your self-limiting beliefs—in 5 steps.

Step 1: Recognize your self-limiting beliefs

The first step to overcoming your self-limiting beliefs is first to identify them.

Pay close attention to those little voices in your head as you go about your day: what are they saying? 💬 Are any of those thoughts or statements negative?

If they are, write them down. Do this for at least 7 days.

Step 2: Reflect on how these beliefs originated and how they have held you back

At this point, if you’re like most, you should have come up with a pretty long list of self-limiting beliefs.

Go through every single belief and ask yourself the following questions:

  • How did I develop this belief?
  • How has this belief held me back?

For example, let’s say I recognized that one of my self-limiting beliefs is that I can’t do the barbell back squat.

  • How did I develop this belief? I have long femurs, so my hips must travel backward more (compared to someone with a long torso and short femur). There was one embarrassing incident where I literally got “folded” and pinned down by the barbell. True story. 🫣
  • How has this belief held me back? I’ve avoided the barbell back squat like the plague ever since. Even though I think it looks cool and is one of the most functional exercises I could do. It has also killed any powerlifting dreams of mine (have you ever met a powerlifter who doesn’t squat? The answer is no.)

Step 3: Challenge your self-limiting beliefs

What are your self-limiting beliefs costing you? For example, my self-limiting belief cost me my powerlifting dreams (and my ability to look "cool" in the gym—note that this is subjective).

Ask yourself if holding on to your self-limiting beliefs is worth it.

Unfortunately, in most cases, it isn’t. And once you’re ready to accept that, you’re also primed for the next stage involved in overcoming your self-limiting beliefs: challenging them.

In general, self-limiting beliefs lose their power as soon as you consider that they may not be true. So don't be afraid to question your beliefs.

Think your metabolism is flawed? Well, what if you’re wrong?

By the way, these articles may help:

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Can Weight Loss ‘Damage’ Your Metabolism?
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The Easy Way To Boost Your Metabolism – NEAT
There’s an easier way to boost your metabolism! Say Hi to ‘non-exercise activity thermogenesis’ (aka NEAT). In this article, learn everything you need about NEAT, and how you can make use of it in your daily life to experience fat loss – on the double.

Think you won't look good with muscle? Well, what if you’re wrong?
Think you can’t go heavier than 2 plates on the back squat? Well, what if you’re wrong?

Imagine a world where your assumption is wrong: what would that look like? What would you be doing that isn’t possible right now?

Step 4: Pick a new belief

Ideally, you should create alternative, more positive beliefs to truly conquer your self-limiting beliefs.

That said, the key thing is that this new belief must be believable

For example, if you believe you can’t go heavier than 2 plates on the back squat, the first step might be to say something like, “I have been able to progress on the leg press, so I know my legs have the strength to progressively overload on the barbell back squat, too.”

For me, the way I justified my new beliefs about the barbell back squat was to look up professional squatters with long femurs. And trust me, there are so many. All of whom are lifting heavy-ass weights.

So, give yourself reasons why you could believe these new, alternative beliefs.

Psst: your mindset really does affect your muscle growth. Learn more below.

Does Your Training Mindset Affect Your Muscle Growth?
Does your training mindset affect your muscle growth? Ans: in every way possible, from mind-muscle connection to lifting intensity. Here’s why.

Step 5: Be kind to yourself

Challenging your self-limiting beliefs and replacing them with new, positive ones isn't easy. You didn't develop your mindset overnight, so it’s unreasonable to expect that you’ll break free of your self-limiting beliefs in just a few days.

Treat yourself with kindness. Be proud of yourself for having the courage to identify and tackle self-limiting thoughts and behaviors.

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References

Kronemyer, D., & Bystritsky, A. (2014). A non-linear dynamical approach to belief revision in cognitive behavioral therapy. Frontiers in Computational Neuroscience, 8, 55. https://doi.org/10.3389/fncom.2014.00055

Tang, X., Duan, W., Wang, Y., & Guo, P. (2015). The development of Negative Self-Beliefs Inventory (NSBI): Cultural adaptation and psychometric validation. PeerJ, 3, e1312. https://doi.org/10.7717/peerj.1312